"Do not leave the one you love for the one you like"

To often do people want what they can not have. Not only do they want what the cannot have but, many will do the most to get it. For example, you have a significant other who loves you tremendously, you come across someone lustful to your taste, and suddenly you have lost all focus. Even though this person doesn't pay you any attention, you just can't seem to get their image out of your head. So, you go home already agitated because, NEWS FLASH you have seen the hottest thing physically in your head, and BOOM, next thing you know your significant other is wanting to have a conversation about bills, and other everyday life issues. Now it gets tricky, you saw something lustful and their was no drama involved, you come home into a world of conversations about what you need to get done, decisions. The argument continues and without notice your significant other has pushed you more toward the image of the oh so lustful human being. So you gather a few belongings and you insinuate your going to go out with your buddies because its all just to much to deal with.
   Now here comes the philosophical part. Just because the presence of someone gives you a great physical comfort, does not mean act upon it. As a Adult Child of divorce I've seen first hand the type of pain cheating, lying and, being spiteful can cause. One night, is not worth one life. Not only are you crushing the person who waits upon you hand and foot, but your crushing the hearts of the creations you two brought into this world (your kids).
   Men and women, always look at what is in front of you, and if its not broken don't fix it, and if it is try to. To often do people throw away years of built foundation , just to walk on a side walk with cracks in it. Never leave the one you love for the one you like, because no matter what there is always going to be someone better than you and your significant other. Question is, is the grass truly greener on the other side of the fence, or are you not watering properly on your side? The decision is always left up to oneself, but the pain that's for everyone involved. Think before you act, Think before you speak, and most of all Leave before you cheat.